Moose Lake, MN. September 25, 1999. Interview with Pam Poirier, mother of murder victim Katie Poirier, and PamÕs sister Debbie Krampf. -- Pam Poirier, mother of murder victim Katie Poirier, sat with her sister Debbie Krampf by the family fire pit whe

Moose Lake, MN. September 25, 1999. Interview with Pam Poirier, mother of murder victim Katie Poirier, and PamÕs sister Debbie Krampf. -- Pam Poirier, mother of murder victim Katie Poirier, sat with her sister Debbie Krampf by the family fire pit where they have spent hours reflecting and retelling stories about Katie. ÒIt will be a place of knowing the new me,Ó said Pam of the fire pit. ÒIÕm not the same person as when Katie was abducted. As I grieve the loss of my daughter, I also grieve the loss of me. IÕm not sure of anything anymore. EverythingÕs a first. ItÕs very scary. For 43 years IÕve been one person, and now I donÕt even know this person.Ó In the fire pit are flowers from last weeks memorial service.(Photo By CHERYL DIAZ MEYER/Star Tribune via Getty Images)